(Highlighting photos again today from Russ Moorehead on Instagram)
There is a part I think you will like.
25 years of research says there's a way to kiss good-bye to some types of doldrums and most depressions. (Yes, depression!)
Martin says: Moral exercise is one antidepressant tactic we need.
I like it.
Traditionally, many people have relied on families, churches, and nations to provide them with these opportunities for moral exercise. But as people shift or move or find themselves for whatever reason without a community, these are golden ideas you can do on your own. It would also be incredible to join with some families in the neighborhood and work on carrying some of these ideas out.
A personal note: That bit about relying on a church environment for many of these opportunities? Yes, that was me. And it really is brilliant if you have that. Though right now I feel less connected to that church community here. And so...I'm thankful for some new ideas.
So have at it. Here are 6 moral exercises you can do to cultivate more happiness and prevent more depression. Martin suggests adopting at least one.
1. Put aside 5 percent of last year’s taxable income to give away, not to charities like United Way, which do the work for you; you must give the money away yourself, personally. Among potential recipients in the charitable field you are interested in, you must advertise that you are giving away $3,000 (or whatever) and for what general purposes. You must interview prospective grantees and decide among requests. You give out the money and follow its use to a successful conclusion.
BAM. Isn't this idea fantastic?! I love, love this idea. Too often donating money means handing it over to an organization. But this! Advertising? Interviewing? This is would be a game changer. This would be an intimate experience with a cause that you care about.
Have you done anything like this? I grew up giving up 2 meals on the first Sunday of the month, and then the money was donated to someone in need (via our church). I still think it's a beautiful practice! Though I like the idea of rotating it around and giving up other things, too. Also, sometimes this practice feels routine as it's just something I've always done. I definitely need to put some more intention into it. I think it would help to find a person on my own that I could help.
3. When asked by a homeless person for money, talk to him. Judge as well as you can if he will use the money for nondestructive purposes. If you think he will, give it to him (give no less than five dollars).
We've gotten into the mode where we don't care how someone will use the money. That moment of judgement is not needed and does not leave you feeling good. We try to look past any destructive behavior and focus more on what we can do to show them some humanity.4. Frequent areas where you will find beggars, talking to the homeless and giving money to the ones in true need. Spend three hours per week doing this.
I don't have very much experience with this. But it happened once recently - in San Francisco. We did this very thing. And I wonder now why we don't do it more often.
5. When you read of particularly heroic or despicable acts, write letters: fan letters to people who could use your praise and mend-your-ways letters to people and organizations you detest. Follow up with letters to politicians and others who can act directly. Spend three hours per week at this. Do it slowly. Compose the letters every bit as carefully as you would a crucial report for your company.
Love this. I could be better about writing letters. Though I have tried to use social media to support and praise people who are doing something I believe in.
6. Teach your children how to give things away. Have them set aside one-fourth of their allowance to give away. They should discover a needy person or project to give this money to, personally.
Love all you parents who try to teach your kids to be giving!-----
I'd love to know: Do you do anything of these things? Do you have a community where you do them or is that lacking for you? If you could start up one of these between now and Thanksgiving, which one would you do? Writing it down here or elsewhere will make it more likely to happen. :)
With all my love,
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