So, the sale happened without a ton of planning. I just knew that we had to clear out most everything in the next couple of weeks so one night I just bit the bullet and dove in to the process. Selling so much was one of the BEST things I've ever done and I don't regret ANY of it. I only wish I had done this years ago!!
So this is how it went down...
Within a few hours of pulling bins and items out of every nook and cranny, a disgusting pile began to form in the living room. I began recording the items in a HUGE list and sent the list to friends, neighbors, and Craigslist. I also included some set hours for a big indoor sale (since it was too freezing and snowy for a sale outdoors.) The pile and the list were quite embarrassing to me. It's just ridiculous how much stuff accumulates - even when you try to avoid it. But I sent the list anyway. I figured someone out there may want or need "72 plastic Easter eggs" or a "large amount of cellophane party favor bags." My friends said they enjoyed reading through the items. One even said I should keep the list for a historical record of my life in Brooklyn. I guess that's not a bad idea. :)
Well, it turned out that lots of people came to the sale! I was so happy. I priced things as we went and tried to price things cheap enough that people would just buy them. I am sure I could have gotten so much more $ on e-bay, but listing items really would have been a full-time job. It was nice to just see the pile get smaller as the day went on.
We sold hundreds of baby clothes (not exaggerating!) I had been storing tons and tons of items for many years, thinking that we'd one day need them. (Many of the clothes had been given to me by a very generous family.) We sold extra sets of dishes; "extra" kitchenware that often goes unused like pizza stones, roasting pans, popover pans; clothes; shoes; hats; bags; holiday decorations; books GALORE; wrapping paper; dumbbells and other exercise accessories; home decor items; office supplies; all my infertility stuff like books, CDs, ovulation sticks galore; items we had saved "in case we had a house or a yard one day" or "in case we had kids one day" and sooooooooo many other things. It was quite a trip to pull out stuff from both of our past lives: our college years, our former married years and our single years. Lots of history went through my mind in that 24 hour period. A few things that stood out: I found some notes I had written about my marriage during a therapy session during the lowest time of my life, about a year before I learned anything about happiness. Wow. That was really something to read. And our friend Tina bought a vest from Danny's college years and she went straight for the pockets to see what treasures she acquired. :) She pulled out a hand written letter from his mother and some college bookstore receipts from 2002. She was pretty pleased. :)
Many people asked if was hard to see it all go. And actually, it wasn't one bit. Most of the stuff never got used anyway as it was tucked away. I wondered if it might be strange to sell the baby clothes. It felt slightly unfortunate to not have a use for the clothes as I wouldn't have had to buy a thing for boys or girls up to probably age 5. But, even the baby/kid clothes are just "stuff". I wasn't emotionally attached to them. If anything, I felt more annoyed that I had kept them so long (they literally filled my storage room, bedroom closets and under beds, which is precious real estate in New York!) It was a relief to get rid of them and let them be worn by some cute girls and boys.
If there's one thing I can convince you / beg you all to do: HAVE A HUGE SALE! As soon as you possibly can!! :)
It is truly the best feeling to clear out items that you truly don't need. Also, you will meet very many people in the process and you'll sigh and smile at the sense of community as neighbors and friends and even strangers come in for a look and a chat. We had some of the best conversations that day and it was also so, so fun to see what people would buy. :) If I was more organized I would have turned on some music and made some cookies.
Have any of you cleared out most of your household before and did anything special bring it about? Was it freeing or traumatizing? And how did you get rid of everything?
P.S. FYI, My friend, Melissa Hope, recommended this website called "Twice." They help you downsize your clothing by selling it for you. As Melissa says, "They send you a bag with paid shipping, you send it out and done." SO AWESOME!! Also, it's an amazing site for buying used clothing as well. I love their slogan: "Pre-Loved Fashion!"
P.P.S. I should also note that we ARE keeping our furniture (for the renters) and we'll store a few things that do mean something to us - like Danny's guitars, some special books/journals/photos, a few select recipe books (of course, Danny's favorite), our 20x24 Polaroid, our vintage Polish movie posters from Posteritati in Soho, my small children's book collection, our coat rack made in Brooklyn, some hand made quilts from family and friends, a wall map of New York, our Kitchen Aid, our Dyson Vacuum, some New York magazines from over the years with covers that either looked cool or meant something to me (including the one from Hurricane Sandy), a poster from Harvey Faircloth, heavy winter clothing that we won't need in Ecuador, and...the Flowbie :). So I guess we're still attached to some things. :)