2012 – Let’s Make It A Good One

This time of year is one of the best ever.  I love, love, love the change of a new year and the tradition of focusing on the kind of life that I want for myself.  It’s the most empowering feeling to know that I get to choose the way I experience my life and that I get to make adjustments as often as I want.
Over the years I’ve had goals related to business ventures (ha!), saving a certain amount of money, owning a washer & dryer in New York :), owning a parking space, buying a brownstone, traveling abroad, or somehow….becoming a mother.  There is nothing wrong with these goals…but at this point in my life, the most important goal I seek after each and everyday is trying to maintain my connection to the Divine throughout my experiences, especially during the most difficult ones.  I’ve learned there is NOTHING better than this.  It really does trump every other thing I could do or achieve in this life.
While we are all faced with different circumstances, our journey of trying to feel whole, improve, & face our trials is the same.  No matter what goals you may have for this new year, may I suggest that you look at your life and your beautiful self with gratitude.  And depending on where you are in your life right now, even if you can’t think of much to be grateful for, be grateful for the opportunity you have to change.  Even if your circumstances are not changeable, YOU can always change and become something greater than you are.
And, as we work to improve ourselves, may we not dwell in negativity because of any weakness, flaw or inadequacy we have now.  May we go after our goals with all our hearts – yes! – but dismiss that harmful script in our head that says, “We aren’t good enough.”  Instead, as hard as it may seem, let’s accept that our weaknesses are necessary for us to improve, and embrace them and be grateful for them!  That tiny change in perspective is HUGE.
One of the most inspiring women I know shared this quote with us today (her husband just passed away one year ago from rare disease.)  It inspires me as I think about my goals for this new year…
“No pain that we suffer,
no trial that we experience is wasted.
It ministers to our education, to the development
of such qualities as patience, faith, fortitude, and humility.
All that we suffer and all that we endure,
especially when we endure it patiently,
builds up our characters, purifies our hearts,
expands our souls, and makes us more tender and charitable,
more worthy to be called the children of God…
and it is through sorrow and suffering, toil and tribulation,
that we gain the education that we came here to acquire
and which will make us more like our Father in heaven.”
-Orson F. Whitney
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  1. Maria January 2, 2012 at 5:34 pm - Reply

    Wow, what a truly beautiful New Years post. This is so perfectly stated-

    "Instead, as hard as it may seem, let's accept that our weaknesses are necessary for us to improve, and embrace them and be grateful for them! That tiny change in perspective is HUGE."

    To be grateful for weakness- to make them our allies instead of the enemy- so utterly freeing!

  2. Julie Keeven Nunn January 3, 2012 at 5:17 am - Reply

    Thanks for sharing- I needed to hear some of that!
    " be grateful for the opportunity you have to change. Even if your circumstances are not changeable, YOU can always change and become something greater than you are." – love it!

  3. Molly January 4, 2012 at 12:03 am - Reply

    In a self-reflection exercise a few days ago, I was supposed to choose out of a long list of words the 5 that most reflected my core values. After searching and searching through the words, I realized that gratitude wasn't on the list! I quickly wrote it in on the side and used it as one of my 5 core values. Gratitude is infinitely valuable. I believe it can solve many of our problems and help us live in absolute happiness. Thanks for posting about this!

  4. Farah January 5, 2012 at 4:14 am - Reply

    Hi Mara!!
    My mom sent me your blog and it is truly inspirational!
    You go to Church with her every sunday! Her name is Marcia.
    Happy New Year 🙂

  5. Stephanie January 7, 2012 at 1:03 am - Reply

    Happy New Year's Mara and Danny! Beautiful post– I'm always uplifted after visiting your blog.
    I have a good New Year's resolution for you… come out to Cali for a visit 🙂
    Miss you!

  6. Homens Ricos February 24, 2012 at 1:09 am - Reply

    Yes your right " lets make it good one"..

    you are very talented writer…Keep it up..

  7. Andi May 6, 2012 at 5:32 am - Reply

    i found your blog for the first time yesterday.
    after reading a couple current posts, i was intrigued to start at the beginning, and every spare minute since in the last 2 days i've found myself back here,
    laughing, crying, nodding in agreement, and filling my heart.
    thank you.
    it's so nice to find posts about life and love that are centered.
    centered in truth, and priorities, and the gospel.
    you have inspired me to be better, and i thought you should know.

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